How Destination Ash Scattering Works: A Simple, Meaningful Farewell
Saying goodbye to a loved one is never easy, but when it comes to honoring their memory, many families are choosing to go beyond traditional burial or cremation urns. Destination ash scattering offers a unique and beautiful way to pay tribute to a life well-lived, all while connecting your loved one to some of the most breathtaking natural locations around the country. At BONAVENTURE, we’ve streamlined the process to ensure that the journey is as peaceful and respectful as the memory you wish to celebrate.
If you’ve been considering a scattering ceremony, but feel overwhelmed by the logistics, you're not alone. Travel, mobility issues, and access to beautiful locations can often stand in the way of fulfilling your loved one's final wishes. That’s where BONAVENTURE comes in—making it easier for families to carry out these meaningful ceremonies without the stress of coordinating travel, permits, and other details.
Here’s a look at how our unaccompanied ash scattering service works and how we can help you create a meaningful and stress-free tribute for your loved one.
Step 1: Begin Your Journey with BONAVENTURE
The first step in honoring your loved one is selecting a location. BONAVENTURE offers a handpicked selection of 17 stunning destinations across the United States, from serene national parks and peaceful lakesides to dramatic ocean views. We’ve carefully chosen these locations to provide the perfect setting for a memorable tribute, whether you’re seeking a quiet, private space or a more open, scenic area.
Once you’ve selected your preferred scattering site, it’s time to fill out our simple online form. We ask for basic details, such as:
The name of your loved one
Your preferred scattering location
Any special messages or requests you would like to include during the ceremony (optional)
We also ask that you provide a copy of your loved one’s death certificate. This helps us remain compliant with all necessary state and National Park regulations, and ensures that every part of the process is carried out securely and lawfully. Our team is experienced with the permitting process, so you don’t have to worry about handling any of the red tape.
As a heartfelt keepsake, we also offer a handcrafted commemorative plaque with each scattering ceremony. You can choose to have a small portion of your loved one's ashes enclosed in the plaque—a lasting tribute to their memory. Both the plaque and the inclusion of ashes in it are offered at no extra charge.
Step 2: Sending the Ashes to BONAVENTURE
Once you’ve completed the paperwork, the next step is sending your loved one’s ashes to us. We offer two easy options:
Coordinate with a Funeral Home: If you’re already working with a funeral home, simply ask them to send the ashes directly to BONAVENTURE. We’ll take care of the rest, ensuring that everything is handled with respect and security.
Ship the Ashes Yourself: If you prefer to send the ashes yourself, we make it simple– use a free USPS cremains kit and our prepaid label to ship directly to us.
At BONAVENTURE, we understand that security is of utmost importance. Rest assured, once we have your loved one’s ashes, they are never out of our care. We implement rigorous tracking measures throughout the process, so you can have peace of mind every step of the way.
Step 3: The Ash Scattering Ceremony
Once we receive your loved one’s ashes, our team begins preparing for the ceremony. This is when the real work of honoring your loved one takes place, and we treat it with the care and respect it deserves.
Ceremony Preparation
We take the time to carefully prepare for the scattering ceremony, ensuring every detail reflects the wishes you’ve shared with us. We understand the emotional significance of this moment, and our team works diligently to create a peaceful and serene experience.
Thoughtful Timing
The timing of the ceremony is crucial to ensuring a meaningful farewell. Whether it's the stillness of early morning or the beautiful hues of a sunset, we choose the best time to carry out the scattering, enhancing the beauty and serenity of the moment.
Conducting the Ceremony
When the time comes, we’ll conduct a quiet, respectful scattering at your chosen location. Our team handles everything, from the actual scattering to taking photos of the ceremony, which you can choose to receive afterward as a keepsake of this important moment.
Why Choose BONAVENTURE for Ash Scattering?
At BONAVENTURE, we specialize in helping families honor their loved ones in a meaningful and stress-free way. Our unaccompanied ash scattering service takes the burden off families by handling the logistics of the scattering, including transportation, permits, and timing. This allows you to focus on what truly matters—the emotional and personal connection to the ceremony.
We understand that every family is different, and we tailor our services to meet your specific wishes. Whether your loved one had a favorite place they wanted to be remembered, or you simply want to connect their memory with the beauty of nature, our team is here to help you create a heartfelt farewell. With us, you can be sure that their final journey is handled with the utmost respect and care.
If you’re ready to honor your loved one’s memory with a beautiful and meaningful ash scattering ceremony, or if you have any questions about the process, please don’t hesitate to reach out to us. Let BONAVENTURE help you create a peaceful, lasting tribute that reflects the life and legacy of the one you’ve lost.
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