Frequently Asked Questions About Joint Ash Scattering Ceremonies

Can ashes of two people be scattered together?

Yes. Many families choose to scatter the ashes of two loved ones in a single ceremony—either by combining the ashes beforehand or scattering them side by side. It’s a powerful way to honor a shared journey, such as a couple, siblings, or close friends who lived meaningful lives together.

❓ Understanding Ash Scattering

What does it mean to scatter ashes?
Scattering ashes is the act of releasing cremated remains into nature—on land, at sea, or in the air—as a symbolic and physical farewell. It represents letting go, returning to the earth, and celebrating the life of a loved one in a setting that meant something to them.

Is scattering ashes legal?
Yes. Ash scattering is legal in all 50 U.S. states, but certain locations—such as National Parks or coastal waters—require a permit or must follow environmental guidelines.

Where can I legally scatter ashes?
You can scatter ashes on private property with permission, in most National and State Parks with a permit, or in federal waters beyond 3 nautical miles. Public lands typically require special approval.
👉 See National Park guidelines →

Can I scatter ashes in the ocean?
Yes. The EPA allows scattering at sea at least 3 nautical miles from shore. BONAVENTURE offers ocean scattering packages, including Pensacola at Sunset with Dolphins →.

Can I scatter ashes in a National Park?
Yes, with a special use permit. BONAVENTURE handles the entire permitting process for you in parks like Yellowstone, Glacier, and Mount Rainier.

Do I need permission to scatter ashes on private property?
Yes. If you’re not the property owner, written permission is required.

Can I scatter ashes in multiple places?
Absolutely. Many families divide ashes to create multiple meaningful tributes. BONAVENTURE can help you coordinate ceremonies in several locations or over time.

Is it better to scatter ashes or keep them in an urn?
It depends on personal preference. Scattering offers symbolic release and connection to nature, while urns allow for a physical presence in the home or a columbarium. Many families choose to do both.

Is scattering ashes religious or spiritual?
It can be. Some families include prayers, blessings, or rituals. Others approach it as a deeply personal or nature-based act.

Is it safe for the environment?
Yes, when done responsibly. BONAVENTURE follows “Leave No Trace” practices and uses biodegradable materials only. We have a park ranger on staff, and we also consider all EPA best practices.

📍 Choosing a Location

How do I choose the right scattering location?
Think about places your loved one cherished—mountains, oceans, migration routes, or national parks. BONAVENTURE offers scattering destinations inspired by nature and memory →.

What’s the most popular place to scatter ashes?
National Parks and oceanfront locations are most common.
👉 See our National Park tribute options →

Can BONAVENTURE help me decide?
Yes. We’ll learn about your loved one and recommend the most meaningful, beautiful setting available—whether that’s bioluminescence in Puget Sound, the Tetons, or the Whale Trail. More than anything, we want to honor your loved one and your family.

What if I live far from the destination?
BONAVENTURE specializes in unaccompanied ash scattering, meaning we perform the ceremony on your behalf with care, reverence, and full documentation.

Can you scatter ashes near a favorite trail or lake?
Yes. We offer customized options, for those who loved the outdoors.

🧾 Permits & Legalities

Do I need a permit to scatter ashes?
Yes, in most public lands and national parks. BONAVENTURE manages all permit applications for you.

How much does a permit cost?
Permit fees vary by location but are included in all BONAVENTURE Ash Scattering Service packages.

Is it legal to scatter ashes at sea?
Yes, with EPA compliance. BONAVENTURE ensures full legal adherence in all ocean-based scatterings.

Can you scatter ashes in another state?
Yes. BONAVENTURE serves families across the U.S. and can receive ashes by mail to perform ceremonies in distant locations.

What if the location requires tribal or local approval?
We respect and honor land stewardship, and will always coordinate with relevant authorities or recommend alternative sites if needed.

✉️ Shipping & Handling Ashes

How do I send ashes safely for scattering?
Use the USPS Cremated Remains Kit #2 and ship via Priority Express.
📦 Order the kit here →

How long does it take for ashes to arrive by mail?
1–3 business days via USPS Priority Express.

Can I combine ashes before mailing?
Yes. If you'd like a joint ceremony, you may combine ashes or label them separately.
🕊️ See Partners Package →

Do I need to include paperwork with the ashes for this service?
Yes, include a note with names, contact info, and your selected destination.

🌸 Ceremony Details

What happens during a BONAVENTURE scattering ceremony service?
Each ceremony includes a respectful release of ashes at your chosen destination, optional reading or song, GPS documentation, and a custom tribute plaque.

Can I include a note or prayer?
Yes. You may include a short written dedication, poem, or letter to be carried during the ceremony.

What items can be scattered with the ashes?
Only biodegradable items—such as flower petals or dissolvable paper notes—are permitted during a sea scattering. In National Parks we follow “Leave No Trace” ethics.

🕊️ Emotional & Spiritual Support

Is it okay to feel unsure about scattering ashes?
Completely. It’s a deeply personal decision. We’re here to talk it through with compassion and without pressure.

What if my family disagrees on where to scatter?
We can help create a compromise—like a shared destination or splitting ashes across multiple places.

Can I keep some ashes in a keepsake and scatter the rest?
Yes. Many families keep a small portion in a locket, urn, or memorial jewelry.

What if I don’t feel ready?
There’s no rush. Some families wait months or even years before they feel ready. BONAVENTURE will be here whenever that time comes.

Is scattering ashes a form of closure?
For many, yes. It’s a powerful and peaceful way to say goodbye—especially in a place your loved one cherished.

🧭 Special Circumstances

Can we scatter ashes after a direct cremation?
Absolutely. BONAVENTURE works with families regardless of cremation provider or timeline.

Do you offer joint ceremonies for couples or family members?
Yes. Our Partners Package honors two people with a shared tribute.

What if one person is still living?
Some families scatter one set now and return later to add the other. We support this symbolic “reunion” whenever you’re ready.

🌍 Destinations & Inspiration

What’s the most unique place BONAVENTURE offers?
Bioluminescence in Puget Sound is a truly magical setting, glowing with life as ashes return to the sea.

Do you offer seasonal or migration-based scatterings?
Yes—such as the Monarch Migration or Sandhill Crane Migration.

Can you scatter ashes by hot air balloon?
Yes. Our Hot Air Balloon Tribute offers an elevated, symbolic release.

Do you offer combo park experiences?
Yes. Our America the Beautiful Package includes three major national parks.

Can BONAVENTURE help me plan a return visit to the location?
Yes. We can provide the exact coordinates and seasonal tips for families who wish to visit later.

💬 Other Common Concerns

Do you scatter ashes internationally?
Currently, BONAVENTURE offers U.S.-based destinations only. If you have a special international request, we may be able to accomodate them— reach out and we’ll see if we can help!

What happens if the weather is bad?
We monitor weather patterns and will reschedule to ensure the ceremony is carried out safely and respectfully.

Do you offer discounts for veterans or couples?
We occasionally offer seasonal promotions. Please reach out for details on custom pricing for joint scatterings.

How do I get started with BONAVENTURE?
Just choose your destination here → or contact us directly to begin planning your ceremony. We’re honored to help.